Last evening we realized our elderly neighbors were waiting for Alex and Andrew to trick or treat at their house. We have never celebrated Halloween except to buy candy for children who may drop by. My husband Tim came home from work and hearing of the dilemma told the boys to put on their baseball uniforms, one was already wearing it as his daily attire. For the first time in 27 years Tim took the little boys trick or treating. He went to all the elderly neighbors’ houses. He said it was so sweet when Alex got excited about getting a pack of crackers from one very old lady.

As he was drifting off to sleep last night, Tim said, “I had a great time talking to our neighbors. That was fun.”

We had a few Winnie-the-Poohs and ballerinas come to our door. No horror movie spectacles this year.

Alex and Andrew now have an insane amount of candy but I have limited them to 5 pieces a day and they are sharing. Yes, I did eat a small bag of peanut M&Ms for breakfast!

So there you have it. We still talked to the boys about not celebrating death and we did sing A Mighty Fortress with only candlelight before bed but the worst thing the kids saw yesterday was Muentzer burning (in Luther) and Hus in the Reformation Overview which was pretty doggone awful.

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I know I have done this before but I can’t find the post so here we go again. I like to spend the month of November reading certain books, singing certain songs, and saying certain poems with the children.

There is nothing like an old Ideals Thanksgiving book set out on the table to bring out the holiday spirit. These old magazines work great for Christmas and Easter also. I just buy them here and there as I see them but I have seen them on Ebay before. The thrift store should have a few. (Hint: try Paperback Swap)

Here are a few of the books we have enjoyed over the years:

A Thanksgiving Story in Vermont

We love this book because we got it at the same time we bought our own worn-out farmhouse. It gave us hope and it is still a warm, cozy Thanksgiving read-aloud.

Louisa May Alcott’s Old-Fashioned Thanksgiving. Our copy is illustrated by Jody Wheeler and it is a favorite. Great, fun story.

Three Young Pilgrims by Cheryl Harness. Lovely illustrations. Oh, that blue!

Long ago favorite family reading aloud for the month of November, Stories of the Pilgrims by Margaret Pumphrey.

A Thanksgiving Primer put out by Plimoth Plantation Publications.

The Thanksgiving Story by Alice Dalgliesh.

Turkeys, Pilgrims and Indian Corn by Edna Barth.

N C Wyeth’s Pilgrims for the pictures not the text.

Then, of course, there are the very well done books from Plimoth Plantation:

Sarah Morton’s Day

and

Samuel Eaton’s Day

Don’t forget you can go straight to the source and read parts of William Bradford’s Of Plymouth Plantation or even try reading one of the Childhood of Famous American books out loud, William Bradford: Pilgrim Boy.

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Ideas Have Consequences

Chapter 3
Fragmentation and Obsession

I realize no one may be reading this except Dana. Hi, Dana. Dana and I like preaching to each other :)

Nevertheless, I maintain.

Did I mention that you should buy this book? Did I act like chapter 2 was the best chapter? Well, Chapter 3 is even better.

This book is not overtly Christian or biblical in the sense of quoting scripture but it will help you to do something the Bible tells us is a good thing. It will help you to understand the times. These are the times that God has placed us in. We do well to understand them and to help our children understand them. When you read a book like Ideas Have Consequences it will give you ideas and you will be able to pass them along to your children when you rise up and when you walk along the way.

This chapter is the clearest presentation of the dangers of specialization that I have read. I have been known to decry specialization; I have had an inherent view that specialization was harmful but I have not been able to completely understand why until I read this chapter.

While reading chapter 3 I felt like someone was validating me and the choices I have made with my children. I didn’t know that I was looking for this sort of validation but it cleared up a lot for me and I am thankful. It helped me come to a little bit of peace about some of the areas I have chosen over other areas.

I have made conscious decisions over the years to stick with the subjects where wisdom (history and literature) is found over the more specific factual subjects. I haven’t been too disappointed in the outcome but I have been hard pressed to give an answer for why. I have never actually known why. I guess I am just arrogant enough to follow a hunch. Chapter 3 made me glad I followed the hunch and gave me courage not to worry too much over the choices others make. Well, it least it helped me not too worry for a while. After all, I am a homeschooling mom and I carry the world on my shoulders. It’s what gives me that haggard look :)

I must say that there is no way on earth a good number of people will agree with Weaver’s views in this chapter. People will be pragmatic enough to view specialization as needful in our complicated world. All I can really say is, perhaps, but we all don’t have to do it.

I am no Richard Weaver. In the next post, I will once again give a common place entry of quotes. I would love to beg you to read the quotes not because I typed them but because ideas have consequences.

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Fragmentation and Obsession
Chapter 3
Ideas Have Consequences

Pg 52:

The believer in truth, on the other hand, is bound to maintain that the things of highest value are not affected by the passage of time; other wise the very concept of truth becomes impossible

They are making the ancient affirmation that there is a center of things, and they point out that every feature of modern disintegration is a flight from this toward periphery.

(Try to get a grasp of that one. That word periphery is key.)

Pg 55:

…people had some comfort in the thought that policy was being made by men of ‘broad views’- for such are the inculcations of liberal education. Gentlemen did not always live up to their ideal, but the existence of an ideal is a matter of supreme importance.

…materialism has given its rewards to the sort of cunning incompatible with any kind of idealism.

The American South not only had cherished the ideal but had given it an infusion of fresh strength, partly through its social organization but largely through its education in rhetoric and law. the South’s tradition of learning was the Ciceronian tradition of eloquent wisdom, and this circumstance explains why the major creative political figures of America, from Jefferson through Lincoln to Wilson, have come from this section. But the Civil War brought defeat to Ciceronian humanism, and thereafter the South turned to commerce and technology in its economic life and to the dialectic of New England and of Germany in its educational endeavors. The gentleman was left to walk the stage an impecunious eccentric, protected by certain sentimentality but no longer understood.

( Suggested reading: Penhally by Caroline Gordon)

Pg 56:

By far the most significant phase of the theory of the gentleman is its distrust of specialization. It is an ancient belief going back to classical antiquity, that specialization of any kind is illiberal in a freeman.

…they are expressions of contempt for the degradation of specialization and pedantry. Specialization develops only part of a man; a man partially developed is deformed; and one deformed is the last person to be thought of as a ruler; so runs the irresistible logic of the position.

(I love it!!)

Pg 56:

The position of the philosophic doctor and of his secular heir, the gentleman, was thus correct. For them the highest knowledge concerned, respectively, the relation of men to God and the relation of men to men.

…if Plato’s philosopher had left the city to look at the trees and then had abandoned speculative wisdom for dendrology. The people who would urge just this course are legion among us today. The facts on the periphery, they feel, are somehow more certain.

SWISH

Pg 58:

So the scientist, having lost hold upon organic reality, clings the more firmly to his discovered facts, hoping that salvation lies in what can be objectively verified.
From this comes a most important symptom of our condition, the astonishing vogue of factual information.

Having been told by the relativists that he cannot have truth, he now has ‘facts.’ One notes that even in everyday speech the word fact has taken the place of ‘truth’…

And the public is being taught systematically to make this fatal confusion of factual particulars with wisdom.

The acquisition of unrelated details becomes an end in itself and takes the place of the true ideal of education.

The same attention to peripheral matter long ago invaded the schools, at the topmost levels, it must be confessed, where it made nonsense of literary study and almost ruined history.

Pg 59:

…..that the former distrust of specialization has been supplanted by its opposite, a distrust of generalization.

This is a process of emasculation.

…that modern man is suffering from a severe fragmentation of his world picture. This fragmentation leads directly to an obsession with isolated parts.

pg 60-61

Such obsession with fragments has grave consequences for individual psychology, not the least of which is fanaticism.

(The best lack all conviction while the worst are full of passionate intensity..Yeats)

Let us not question the genuineness of a sigh of relief when people are allowed to go back to their test tubes and their facts.

Pg 61-62

The world no longer has use for a liberally educated class. Surely the answer lies in this abandonment of generalization for specialization, which is the very process of fragmentation.

Pg 66-67

The enforced irresponsibility has itself become a factor in pathology, for
A burden of responsibility is, after all, the best means of getting anyone to think straight.

There is every indication that he retains the same capacity for loyalty, but what has he to be loyal to?

We cannot be surprised at monstrous perversions

This is the exaltation of ‘becoming’ over ‘being.’

Pg 68:

The provincial in time sees that interpretations of the past requires reflection and generalization, which take him beyond the moment.

The very possibility that there may exist timeless truths is a reproach to the life of laxness and indifference which modern egotism encourages.

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I am seriously considering making Tuesdays Goofy Tuesdays since Mondays are getting a little heavy around her with Richard Weaver. I am reading slowly The Flying Inn by Chesterton which could almost be considered a goofy IHC. I giggled my way through the last two chapters on The Higher Criticism and Vegetarianism and frequently made family members listen to passages that weren’t quite as funny to them as they were to me.

Christopher is participating in National Novel Writing Month. I am extremely proud that he took the challenge and that he is keeping up with a …….sports novel. Yes, I was surprised by his topic. Not really, Christopher aspires to be a journalist….a sports journalist and trash-talker par excellence. I know that really nice families have sons who don’t trash talk but in our competitive family it can be a problem.

I was going to participate in NaNoMo with him but gave up after 200 words.

Benjamin is trying to decide whether to run a 5K this Saturday in Huntsville or a half-marathon. He could maybe win in his age group for the 5K but he really wants a challenge. On the other hand he has a cough as many of our family members do. We are beginning to fear it is something insidious. I only took non-coughers to church on Sunday and would you believe all 3 of my pew mates started coughing! I felt like my grandmother passing out cough drops to short people.

My grandmother always had cough drops and tums. She also always carried dollar bills for people who were tempted to let the plate pass without putting anything in.

Speaking of church,
Sunday we sang a hymn that has one of my all-time favorite hymn lines:

And holiness shall whisper the sweet amen of peace

Can you guess the hymn without Google?

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Artist:
Da Vinci

Composer:

Tchaikovsky
(Taking a break from Rimsky-Korsakov but continuing with a Russian and longing for a little
melody.)


Folk Song:

Go Get an Ax

Star of the County Down


Shakespeare:

Measure for Measure

Plutarch:
Philopoemen with Anne White’s notes

Bible Time:
The Book of Life: David and Absalom
Proverbs: one daily
Bite-Sized Theology

Finish learning John 1:1-14

Review:
Micah 6:8
Lord’s Prayer
Habakkuk 3:17-19
12 Tribes of Israel
List of Judges

Hymns:
Continue learning: In Christ Alone

Review:
We Gather Together
Tender Mercies
Arise, Arise
Come Ye Thankful People Come
Bringing in the Sheaves
Now Thank We All Our God

Poetry:
Begin learning: The Lake Isle of Innisfree
and Where the Boats go for the little guys

Review:
How Did you Die? Cooke
Opportunity by Sill
Casey at the Bat
Sail On by Miller

Misc Memory:
Finish learning the Preamble
Read through the 27 amendments to the Constitution one a day

Review:
Planets
State Capitals
We Shall Fight by Winston Churchill
The Apostles Creed
Continents and Oceans

Read Aloud:
English Literature for Boys and Girls. We are on Dryden this week.
Famous Men of the Middle Ages. We are on Robert the Bruce.
A Little History of the World. This book is growing on me after a bad start.
Just David. This is growing on me also. I hope we can finish it in the next couple of weeks.
The Magician’s Nephew. Finish this week.
Dave Barry Slept Here (edited by me) They were all picking it up and reading it so I thought it would be safer if I read it out loud. It is a little confusing for Alex.

Ambleside Time:
Russian Fairy Tales
Little Pilgrim’s Progress
Asking Father. I keep avoiding this one.
Pilgrim Stories by Pumphrey and old favorite revisited.
A Thanksgiving Story in Vermont by Jeff Barth

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My first video posting. I just couldn’t resist.

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I have become increasingly aware of how young some of y’all are. Much of my email comes from mothers with several toddlers and no older children. There is an interesting fact about older mothers: They forget a lot. It’s a blessing and a curse. I suppose it keeps us from being insufferable know-it-alls but sometimes it would be nice to have a few helpful hints to share.

My youngest is 6. It has been light years since my oldest was 6 with a 4, 2, 1 and pregnancy also on the table.

In the interest of helping I have been wracking my brain trying to remember how to deal with small children.

It may be some comfort to some of you that I never spent time making little sand-tables or setting up water play or other creative things with my children. I left the creative play to their imaginations and the only thing I can say is that perhaps their imaginations are too good now. When all is said and done my children had a mother who read to them.

We also took lots of nature walks. I have plenty of memories of walking around Peru, Nebraska; Charlotte, Long Beach and Wilmington, NC; Sagamore Beach and Mashpee, MA; Phoenix, AZ; Rockford, Ill and various other cities with one child in a frontpack and then a backpack and then a front pack and a stroller and then a backpack and a stroller and a child being dragged and begged behind. I tended to take long walks which made the hike home miserable. I have at least 5 memories of walks to the park that ended with me carrying several children home all at the same time. Some children are in ALL of these memories but I am not bitter.

I started MT when Timothy (23) was 5. We began by reading The Story of books daily and Childhood of Famous Americans. He loved it and it was the beginning of my own education. As I have mentioned before I came out of school with straight A’s and an inability to locate George Washington in time or history.

I know you are all wondering: What do you do with your toddlers while you homeschool?
I still haven’t found a satisfactory answer to that question. Give them food is the closest thing to helpful that I can think of and make sure they take a nap until they are at least 6.

With toddlers You just muddle through. Life with toddlers is called muddling through. But then again you get to go to bed every night telling your husband funny toddler stories. The stupid things your toddler will do when he is a teenager will not have that ring of humor.

After all is said and done I can only tell you two things you already know. It will pass much faster than you believe and you need to be in prayer daily for wisdom just like I do now.

Having said that I will keep trying to remember helpful things and I would appreciate it if the rest of the older ladies would pass along some sound advice. You may even explain all the fun little crafts you did when your children were small, but I refuse to feel guilty.

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As I was saying ….I don’t remember a whole lot from when I had 4 small children only. I remember I didn’t wear make-up and I didn’t read a whole lot for pleasure. Reading to the children was my reading and it worked.

I am not an original person. My good friend calls me a plodder. I repeat myself often.

The best thing you can do is just be faithful. Get up and serve your family. Read to your little ones. Don’t come up with some grand scheme to read to them. Read to them. Right now. Stop reading this and go read to them. That is one of my secrets. Whenever I was reading some parenting book and got a good idea, I refused to make up some new chart, instead I just put the book down and implemented the idea right that second. If you can master that concept your time on the Internet will bear fruit, otherwise I fear the Internet is just a stumbling block.

I hate charts and schemes. The best way is often the simplest. If you want to take a nature walk with your children walk out the door right now. That is what I am going to do.

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Since Amy (Pray for Amy. She is STILL pregnant.) sent even more young mothers over here I thought it would be FUN to get really honest. I thought maybe the older moms could tell the things that bug them when they see mothers with young children. I thought this would be a lot of fun :evil: and it would also be a way to plumb the ultimate depths of memory loss and truth telling. If there is one thing I have learned from blogging it’s that negativity sells :)

To get things rolling, I will list ten things I hate to see young mothers doing:

1. I hate it when I am in a public bathroom and a mother is in the stall with her young child and the child is asking the mother to look at the product he has produced. This mother is not in control of her child and she has no commonsense.

2. I hate to see a mother cutting off the crust of the bread for a child, almost always a son. If you are a mother who did this for a daughter I would like to know because your daughter may be president someday.

3. I hate to see flat-headed babies. Hold the baby sometimes.

4. I hate to see women look at their watches when their baby cries.

5. I hate it when young moms get embarrassed when their children misbehave around me. children misbehave. See # 9.

6. I hate to see mothers worry about the weather. If a child is over 6 he will know when he needs to bundle up.

7. I hate to see mothers worry about dirt. Studies show that babies who eat dirt are healthier; they pick up more immunities along the way.

8. I hate talking to women who think that my children are some sort of new breed and that they could never get their children to obey. This usually doesn’t happen among Calvinists but rather shop clerks.

9. I hate to see moms make excuses for disobedience. Whiny, tired, hungry children are one thing, disobedient children are quite another. Even whiny, tired, hungry children must obey. If they disobey discipline them. The sooner the better. Then work on not letting them get so tired and hungry in the future which I realize can’t always be helped.

10. Ok, now for the sake of honesty and transparency and to make up for being so hard on y’all, I will blushingly tell you that I hate it when young mothers that I see frequently never so much as ask me a single thing about parenting. I haunted the older women I knew as a young mom. A girl at church told me that she was afraid I would think she was a stalker but to tell the truth it makes me feel good to think I can help and comfort other mothers. Stalk away.

As you can see I prize commonsense and once again I will repeat the best parents make the worst mistakes. Don’t feel too bad if you have been cutting the crust off the bread just STOP IT.

Your turn old gals.

Young moms you can complain about older women in the comments if you must but we are all so old and stubborn we probably won’t hear a word you say.

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