We have finished 6 weeks of school and I am satisfied, sort of. That I am even contemplating being satisfied is progress. It has been an intense 6 weeks. By some weird fluke my two Ambleside year 7 students are starting week 7. If only we can keep up this pace through week 13, it will set some sort of family record.

The bad news is the house isn’t too clean and my room is a downright mess, which is why I am spending a Saturday afternoon blogging. I just don’t know where to start in my room. Part of the problem is that Tim works nights which doesn’t leave the room free for cleaning even on weekends.

Back to school,
the easiest subject to leave off is our afternoon Ambleside time. Alex and Andrew and I sit down with a stack of books. They take turns picking out a book and narrating. The good news is that they love it so much they nag me a bit in the afternoons and that keeps me from letting life squeeze them out. I am also finely attuned to the fact that this is my last time through many of these books, not counting grandchildren.

And what are we reading?

We are almost finished with our tour through My Bookhouse, volumes 1 & 2. They are the first books chosen daily. I inherited these volumes from my grandmother.

The boys have conspired to pick Little Pilgrim’s Progress last so that they can beg for 2 chapters. Andrew gets quite frustrated with Alex when he jumps the gun and just can’t wait to pick it. This book is a rewriting of Pilgrim’s Progress but it is a classic in its own right and not to be quibbled at for being a rewrite.

Also in out stack are:
Asking Father, a book about how God has used nature to answer prayers. I am not sure what I think about this book but the boys love it and the stories are apparently all true.

The Kingfisher Book of Tales from Russia This book is by James Mayhew, an author/illustrator well worth exploring.

Andersen’s Fairy Tales. The boys absolutely adored The Snow Queen. That sentence sounds so unlike me, as if I had a family of daughters. Never mind. Read The Snow Queen.

I just added The King of the Golden River at which point at least 3 of my older children exclaimed, “I loved that book.”

Alex is up to book 54 in his quest for 100 books. Longtime readers of this blog will remember that we give the kids a reward after their first 100 books. It is the first and last reading reward given in this home. Years ago we did do Book It which is Pizza Hut’s reading program. We quit after 2 separate episodes of children tossing up, as my mother-in-law says. Plus it now costs the rest of us at least $100.00 to eat at Pizza Hut, but I digress.

The world is suddenly alive for Alex. On a recent road trip he read, “g…aaaaaaaa..ssssss eeeeee.x.i…………t.” When I mentioned I needed gas later on he proclaimed, “I will look for a gas exit.” He is absolutely distracted by words. He spends 90% of his time sounding out new words he sees. Everywhere he goes Alex is finding words. The world is suddenly a new place.

Recently, on the Ambleside list several families were discouraged with The Wind in The Willows. I know all books aren’t for everyone but surely some are.

Do you consider any book a part of the canon of your family life?

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MORNING TIME PLANS FOR
First Week of October 2007

Artist:
Da Vinci

Composer:
Rimsky-Korsakov

Folk Song:

Go get an Ax,
Star of the County Down


Shakespeare:

Measure for Measure

Plutarch:
Demetrius

Bible Time
The Book of Life ( KJV Bible readings with supplements, photographs, fine art and poetry)
Bitesize Theology by Peter Jeffery (Thank-you, Just Janet! This is the perfect MT complement, tiny chapters on theological topics.) I just added the Amazon link to this book.
Proverbs

To Relearn daily: John 1:1-14

For review one each day:
III John 1:4

Is 40:28-31

III John 1:4

Is 40:28-31

Jude 1:20-25


Hymn Singing:

Arise, Arise: last week sing daily

For Review:
Brethren we Have Me to Worship (Ok, I realized as we sang this today that I don’t LIKE this song. Do you?)

Bringing in the Sheaves

Brother’s Keeper (old Promise Keepers chorus)

Christ the Lord is Risen Today

Come Thou Fount

Poetry:

The Second Coming, repeat daily

For Review:

Autumn Fires by Robert Louis Stevenson

In the other gardens
And all up the vale,
From the autumn bonfires
See the smoke trail!

Pleasant summer over
And all the summer flowers,
The red fire blazes,
The grey smoke towers.

Sing a song of seasons!
Something bright in all!
Flowers in the summer,
Fires in the fall!

The Statue of Liberty Emma Lazarus

The Boy we Want (From the Book of Virtues by William Bennett)

The Creation Cecil Frances Alexander

Obedience to Parents Issac Watts

Misc. Memory

Preamble, Daily

Contemplate Samuel Adams

Declaration of Independence

Bill of Rights #1
Bill of Rights #2
Bill of Rights #3


Civics Lesson

Reading Aloud:

English Lit for Boys and Girls

Famous Men of the Middle Ages

A Little History of the World I am not ready to recommend this book although it is highly thought of elsewhere.

Fiction:
Just David
The verdict is still out on this one.

Ambleside Time:
My Book House Vol 1 & 2
Russian Fairy Tales
Little Pilgrims Progress
Anderson’s Fairy Tales
Asking Father

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OK, we’ve done this before but I can’t always be original!

Don’t be a duffer.” Repeated frequently on a recent trip to my brother’s houseboat.

Alex wasn’t!

If you give a mouse a cookie…” For obvious reasons.

Sometimes you don’t NEED help.”

“Time for a little something.”

“Little drops of water…”

“With a bare bodkin who would fardels bear?”

“He can’t say it like our chief can.”

You’re such a dufflepud!”

“Water is powerful wet stuff.”

“A boon, a boon.”

“A horse, a horse, my kingdom for a horse.” Shakespeare really hit the nail on the head with that one.

“My precious”

“You’re such a puddleglum.”

“Christopher looks just like a marshwiggle.”

“Help may be right at the door.”

Or how about family expletetives:

“Tiddely-pom”

or our newest:

“Phooey!”
Picked up from and A&E series based on a series of books. I have read the books. The children have seen the movies, at least a few of them. Any guesses?

And finally my newest addition to the family culture. I plan to throw this out randomly when didactic stagers interrupt my morning monologues:

“Am I doomed forever listening to idiots try to hide incompetence behind verbiage?”

Or maybe they will say that to me:)

From a must-read book.

Your turn!

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“The famous statement, “I can only say, Gentlemen, that if the choice were mine, I would rather be the author of these verses [Gray's "Elegy"] than win the battle which we are to fight tomorrow morning,” is said to have been uttered by Wolfe in a fit of pique when his officers did not properly appreciate his recitation.”

I wanted to go ahead and get this poem on the blog. I had to laugh at the quote above because I completely understand Wolfe’s frustration. In stories as in musicals, breaking into poetry seems perfectly natural but in real life it is liable to disenchant. It has become an affectation.

I like the phrase fit of pique. Pique has the ring of righteous indignation. I don’t lose my temper with my children I have a fit of pique. Plus I knew you would click over here if you thought I was ticked again :)

If you are having a fit of pique today this poem should soothe the soul.

Here is a picture of Stoke Poges, the actual churchyard:

Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard

The curfew tolls the knell of parting day;
The lowing herd wind slowly o’er the lea;
The ploughman homeward plods his weary way,
And leaves the world to darkness and to me.

Now fades the glimmering landscape on the sight,
And all the air a solemn stillness holds,
Save where the beetle wheels his droning flight,
And drowsy tinklings lull the distant folds;

Save that, from yonder ivy-mantled tower,
The moping owl does to the moon complain
Of such as, wandering near her secret bower,
Molest her ancient solitary reign.

Beneath those rugged elms, that yew-tree’s shade
Where heaves the turf in many a mouldering heap,
Each in his narrow cell for ever laid,
The rude forefathers of the hamlet sleep.

The breezy call of incense-breathing morn,
The swallow twittering from the straw-built shed,
The cock’s shrill clarion, or the echoing horn,
No more shall rouse them from their lowly bed.

For them no more the blazing hearth shall burn,
Or busy housewife ply her evening care;
No children run to lisp their sire’s return,
Or climb his knees the envied kiss to share.

Oft did the harvest to their sickle yield;
Their furrow oft the stubborn glebe has broke;
How jocund did they drive their team afield!
How bowed the woods beneath their sturdy stroke!

Let not ambition mock their useful toil,
Their homely joys, and destiny obscure;
Nor grandeur hear with a disdainful smile
The short and simple annals of the poor.

The boast of heraldry, the pomp of power,
And all that beauty, all that wealth e’er gave,
Awaits alike the inevitable hour:
The paths of glory lead but to the grave.

Nor you, ye proud, impute to these the fault,
If memory o’er their tomb no trophies raise,
Where through the long-drawn aisle and fretted vault
The pealing anthem swells the note of praise.

Can storied urn or animated bust
Back to its mansion call the fleeting breath?
Can honour’s voice provoke the silent dust,
Or flattery soothe the dull cold ear of death?

Perhaps in this neglected spot is laid
Some heart once pregnant with celestial fire;
Hands that the rod of empire might have sway’d,
Or waked to ecstasy the living lyre:

But knowledge to their eyes her ample page,
Rich with the spoils of time, did ne’er unroll;
Chill penury repressed their noble rage,
And froze the genial current of the soul.

Full many a gem of purest ray serene
The dark unfathomed caves of ocean bear;
Full many a flower is born to blush unseen,
And waste its sweetness on the desert air.

Some village Hampden, that with dauntless breast
The little tyrant of his fields withstood,
Some mute inglorious Milton, here may rest,
Some Cromwell, guiltless of his country’s blood.

Th’ applause of listening senates to command,
The threats of pain and ruin to despise,
To scatter plenty o’er a smiling land,
And read their history in a nation’s eyes,

Their lot forbade: nor circumscribed alone
Their growing virtues, but their crimes confined;
Forbade to wade through slaughter to a throne,
And shut the gates of mercy on mankind;

The struggling pangs of conscious truth to hide,
To quench the blushes of ingenuous shame,
Or heap the shrine of luxury and pride
With incense kindled at the Muse’s flame.

Far from the madding crowd’s ignoble strife
Their sober wishes never learned to stray;
Along the cool sequestered vale of life
They kept the noiseless tenor of their way.

Yet ev’n these bones, from insult to protect,
Some frail memorial still erected nigh,
With uncouth rhymes and shapeless sculpture decked,
Implores the passing tribute of a sigh.

Their name, their years, spelt by the unlettered Muse,
The place of fame and elegy supply;
And many a holy text around she strews,
That teach the rustic moralist to die.

For who, to dumb forgetfulness a prey,
This pleasing anxious being e’er resigned,
Left the warm precincts of the cheerful day,
Nor cast one longing lingering look behind?

On some fond breast the parting soul relies,
Some pious drops the closing eye requires;
Ev’n from the tomb the voice of nature cries,
Ev’n in our ashes live their wonted fires.

For thee, who, mindful of the unhonoured dead,
Dost in these lines their artless tale relate;
If chance, by lonely contemplation led,
Some kindred spirit shall inquire thy fate,

Haply some hoary-headed swain may say:
“Oft have we seen him at the peep of dawn
Brushing with hasty steps the dews away,
To meet the sun upon the upland lawn;

“There, at the foot of yonder nodding beech
That wreathes its old fantastic roots so high,
His listless length at noontide would he stretch,
And pore upon the brook that babbles by.

“Hard by yon wood, now smiling as in scorn,
Muttering his wayward fancies he would rove;
Now drooping, woeful-wan, like one forlorn,
Or crazed with care, or crossed in hopeless love.

“One morn I missed him on the accustomed hill,
Along the heath, and near his favourite tree.
Another came; nor yet beside the rill,
Nor up the lawn, nor at the wood, was he.

“The next with dirges due, in sad array,
Slow through the church-way path we saw him borne,
Approach and read (for thou canst read) the lay
Graved on the stone beneath yon aged thorn.”

THE EPITAPH

Here rests his head upon the lap of earth,
A youth to fortune and to fame unknown;
Fair science frowned not on his humble birth,
And melancholy marked him for her own.

Large was his bounty, and his soul sincere;
Heaven did a recompense as largely send:
He gave to misery (all he had) a tear,
He gained from Heaven (’twas all he wished) a friend.

No further seek his merits to disclose,
Or draw his frailties from their dread abode,
(There they alike in trembling hope repose,)
The bosom of his Father and his God.

– Thomas Gray

Now wasn’t that soothing?

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So my 14 year old son wakes me up at 6:30…am…. to remind me that I said he could run in our town’s 10k today. Usually I am impervious to these sorts of requests but this kid is a workhorse and the kitchen is clean . I am tempted to let the child walk the .3 miles to the race but then I feel that would reflect badly on our family in town. Not really, but I do feel guilt and he has a cup of coffee waiting for me. What kind of mother would send her son off to run his first 10k alone? I am not as impervious as I think.

So there I am at 6:45 without makeup. I immediately notice that all the people arriving are very thin. I spend at least a quarter of an hour musing over the idea of becoming a runner. Maybe I could become hard and angular rather than soft and round. It’s an idea. I mean there is an 80 year old man out there. Most of the runners are at least 40 and they all look like they are holdovers from the 70’s in those cute shorts. It would be fun to eat and be thin instead of starve to be fat. I will see how they look at the end of the race.

There is some consolation; the public library, the 2nd largest library in town ;) is having a book sale.
50 cents for hardcovers and 25 for paperbacks. I buy 3 bags of books and give them $10.00 to be magnanimous and to help them get their library up to speed. I am pretty happy. I found a history book I had only learned of last week, The American Pageant, a few old hardcover Nancy Drews, 2 poetry books by Edgar Guest and more besides but they are still in the trunk.

And now I have to run back and pick up the runner, take his picture crossing the finish line if possible and come home and cook for tomorrow.


Just Across the Line:


“Would the little boy in the red shirt come draw names for us?” Go Alex!


2nd Place 10-14:

I love this town.

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Jayber Crow by Wendell Berry

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Columbus

By Joaquin Miller

BEHIND him lay the gray Azores,
Behind the Gates of Hercules;
Before him not the ghost of shores,
Before him only shoreless seas.
The good mate said: “Now must we pray,
For lo! the very stars are gone.
Brave Admiral, speak, what shall I say?”
“Why, say, ‘Sail on! sail on! and on!’”

“My men grow mutinous day by day;
My men grow ghastly wan and weak.”
The stout mate thought of home; a spray
Of salt wave washed his swarthy cheek.
“What shall I say, brave Admiral, say,
If we sight naught but seas at dawn?”
“Why, you shall say at break of day,
‘Sail on! sail on! sail on! and on!’”

They sailed and sailed, as winds might blow,
Until at last the blanched mate said:
“Why, now not even God would know
Should I and all my men fall dead.
These very winds forget their way,
For God from these dread seas is gone.
Now speak, brave Admiral, speak and say”—
He said: “Sail on! sail on! and on!”

They sailed. They sailed. Then spake the mate:
“This mad sea shows his teeth to-night.
He curls his lip, he lies in wait,
With lifted teeth, as if to bite!
Brave Admiral, say but one good word:
What shall we do when hope is gone?”
The words leapt like a leaping sword:
“Sail on! sail on! sail on! and on!”

Then, pale and worn, he kept his deck,
And peered through darkness. Ah, that night
Of all dark nights! And then a speck—

A light! A light! A light! A light! (We learned this A light, A light, At last a light, which, of course, I prefer.)
It grew, a starlit flag unfurled!
It grew to be Time’s burst of dawn.
He gained a world; he gave that world
Its grandest lesson: “On! sail on!”

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I am going to review this book after only reading 3 chapters. Chapter 1 was interesting but not earth shattering. Chapter 2 was underlined prolifically and chapter 3 was way too ‘emergent’ for my tastes. This book came recommended by Ken Myers during his talk on Communication Technologies as Engines of Restlessness, a wonderful session, at the Circe conference. I can certainly see why he recommended it. Quentin J. Shultze, a professor at Calvin College, tackles one of the main conundrums of living in a technological society.

For my tastes the author does a great job of describing the problem and uses some great quotes.

“TS Eliot laments, ‘Where is the wisdom we have lost in the knowledge?’”

“‘This is a grave threat of the technical,’ writes theologian James M Houston, ‘that it appears to make available readily, easily, universally and even instantly what was once scarce and valued. Commitment ceases to be an exercise of the soul.’”

“This creates a particulary odd state of affairs online, in which nearly everyone is expressing opinions but few people are comprehending them”

“Ultimately we place too much trust in informational rather than moral ways of knowing. We wrongly equate knowledge with the mere identification, classification, and dissemination of storable information.”

I especially like this quote because it brings up the real sin of our age: the belief that we are in control:
” Although today we technocratically perceive ourselves as instruments of control, we are also vessels of caring.”

We certainly lost our ability to care when we became creatures in control. Now we can judge our fellow human beings by how much control they have taken over their lives rather than caring about their misfortunes.

Unfortunately, Chapter 3, Seeking Wisdom in Tradition offers no real hope. While the author doesn’t actually deny the Gospel, he uses the word tradition so much as to essentially deny it. I couldn’t help comparing Vigen Guroian’s treatment of morality and virtue in Tending the Heart of Virtue with Dr Shultze’s constant use of the words tradition and virtue.

Dr Shultze writes, ” In fact, we could ask along with MacIntyre whether it is even possible to cultivate the habits of the heart without narrative-based traditions of virtue.” Even though Vigen speaks of stories and virtues in his book he never brings down the Gospel to just narrative.

It took me at least a week to read through chapter 3 because almost every sentence was pregnant with emergent church psycho-babble. I honestly think I will get more out of Todd Gitlin’s secular and liberal Media Unlimited than I did wading through Dr Shultze’s sad excuse for Christian hope.

“If, on the other hand, our religious meta-narratives reveal our accountability for the world, we are much more likely to become people whom our communities can count on to listen to them.” HUH?

“Religious traditions provide practices that help us assess whether the contemporary stories of our own technological lives are in tune with caring.” Once again we see misplaced faith in practices rather than the transforming power of the Gospel.

The goofy mumbo-jumbo of chapter 3 has made it hard for me to take Dr Shultze seriously. I am sad to think that the best books on the subject are still written by non-Christians such as Neil Postman. If your time is limited, use it to read Postman.

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The Scientific American has just posted a study explaining that mothers of sons live shorter lives. The article while completely flawed by evolutionary presuppositions is still interesting. As a mother of 8 boys I should expect to live 34X8 weeks less than mothers of girls. I wish! I can think of a thousand reasons why I will die much younger than my friends with girls, starting with the kitchen moving through the drawers and closets and ending in the bathroom.

Younger mothers of boys often stop me to ask various questions. Sunday a competent young mother was walking behind me while her small son was logically trying to badger her into getting his way. I did not butt in. But seeing me she did stop and say, “What do you do about that?” I felt so bad for her. He was 4 years away from the didactic stage! I told her she must put aside her training in logic and learn how to stand firm like a woman, apart from all logical attacks from male family members. If you try to outsmart them or out argue them you are doomed before you start. God has made you a woman and you are not bound by the rules of logic. You must not try to earn your authority over the male. Never let them think you are vying for authority. Wear you authority like a string of pearls, an aromatic elixir, a new pair of shoes.

Remember the hedgehog in Montaigne.

Remember the female of the species is more deadly than the male.

For example, your son comes to you with a request to go to a Bible study. A weak, logical mother will be tempted to think this is such a spiritual activity that no one in her right mind would say no. But you are a woman and therefore a fool. You do not think about all the things your son is telling you about the wonderful speaker and the great fellowship. You ask a few pointless questions. These pointless questions throw the seeker off guard. In the inanity of your questions the truth comes out. The seeker does not want to study the Bible; he wants to play ping-pong. Now you are in control. You can say, “Yes you may go play ping-pong because you have read Augustine’s Confessions today,” or you can say, “No way !! Have you smelled the bathroom?” When he argues, look him in the eye and say, “phooey.”

The ability to defy logic is the only way we can keep the female species alive long enough to produce more males.

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I have had the title to this post for a couple of weeks now. After all that musing about college I began to think of root causes. It occurred to me that much of the reason we have seen the world turned upside down is found in the word ambition. Ambition seems to be one of those things bequeathed to us through Adam. It is a word of mixed metaphors. In my mind it is very much like the word frugality. Who could be against frugality? And yet frugality has become an excuse for all kinds of sins. Since this post is not about frugality but rather ambition I will leave that sentence hanging.

But here we have ambition; that thing we want for our children, that striving for better things and better lives. Ambition the word hanging between 2 mothers as they discuss their children’s plans for the future. We have become far too sophisticated to say, “God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life.” We strive and plot and plan and we all begin to sound the same. Apparently, God now has the SAME plan for everyone and if we don’t strive after it something is wrong. Heaven forbid that we should cease striving.

We don’t talk anymore about our children loving and serving God; we talk about how they will succeed in life and then we comfort ourselves with vague ideas about taking the culture for Christ. We want them to serve Christ through success when very often it is failure that drives us to Him.

It is easy to make a spiritual case for ambition. It is made of stern stuff and we love it. We love it just as we love our own righteousness. We defend it and coddle it. Ambition makes us feel good.

My good friend, Rick, just ended his extremely helpful series on The Lost Tools of Living with this verse:

Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody. (1 Thess. 4:11-12)

It is the verse I have come back to over and over again as I strive to help my boys find their place in the world. But it isn’t the only verse.

“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you” (Matthew 6:33)

Psalm 46:10
“Cease striving and know that I am God;I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”

It probably hasn’t helped that I am reading Ecclesiastes in my devotions.

“22 What does a man get for all the toil and anxious striving with which he labors under the sun? 23 All his days his work is pain and grief; even at night his mind does not rest. This too is meaningless.

24 A man can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in his work. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, 25 for without him, who can eat or find enjoyment? 26 To the man who pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge and happiness, but to the sinner he gives the task of gathering and storing up wealth to hand it over to the one who pleases God. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind.”(Eccleciastes 2:22-26)

And in Luke we find Christ speaking to the working man:

Some soldiers were questioning him, saying, “And what about us, what shall we do?” And he said to them, “Do not take money from anyone by force, or accuse anyone falsely, and be content with your wages.” (Luke 3:14)

And finally in I Timothy we find:

6 Now godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain[c] we can carry nothing out. 8 And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content. 9 But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and harmful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
The Good Confession

11 But you, O man of God, flee these things and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, gentleness. (I Timothy 6:6-11)

Wouldn’t it be wonderful to pass down contentment to our children rather than ambition and striving? The truth is I am ambitious for my children and I think it is harming them. I am not preaching to the choir today; I am rebuking myself.

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