Wed 3 Jan 2007
Except for the fact that all my children are different, they are all alike. That is the weird sort of Chestertonian world my brain lives in.
All my babies looked alike even on their ultrasounds. I used to say to the technician, “Yep, that’s the baby.”
All my newborns were old friends.
I have homeschooled each of my children in a strongly CM way. Once in sheer desperation I went out and bought Lifepacs for everyone but I don’t think we even finished 2 books.
This fall Andrew went to my parents’ house for 2 weeks. My mom and dad had to homeschool him without any of his materials. Andrew really blossomed under all the individual attention. My parents did such a good job with Andrew and Benjamin I felt I should send them a child to homeschool or beg them to come help me.
At our house Andrew doesn’t have any trouble at all with any of his assignments but he has a terrible time staying focused. I catch him wandering all over the house and when I tell him he needs to do his schoolwork he answers, “oh,” like that’s a new thought. There is a reason we call him Winnie the Pooh. Andrew shares almost all of Pooh’s characteristics.
He also enjoys the concrete more than my other children; we are an abstract family. So I decided to switch gears with Andrew. He would still be in Morning Time and Ambleside Time (when I manage to squeeze it in), but his other studies would be less CM and more traditional. I bought him several subjects from Rod and Staff, gave him a daily check-off sheet, and he is doing very well. I even bought him a set of their Artpacs which he just loves. The whole family is enjoying helping him learn to draw with the Artpacs. It is interesting that drawing is something the Mennonites do very well. Years ago we subscribed to Nature Friend Magazine and the drawing lessons were the highlight of the magazine.
I bought Penmanship, Reading, Grammar, Art, and Science. He already had R&S math and we do spelling on the computer with a program sold by The Timberdoodle called Dr Aardsma’s Spelling. I have generally avoided all elementary science texts because of time factors but I thought Andrew would enjoy this book.
Now I will tell you a secret. I don’t care how long it takes him to finish his textbooks, a year or 2. He doesn’t do every subject every day. My philosophy is if we have had a full day learning and growing then it is a good school day no matter what we didn’t cover.
Well, that is my philosophy; in real life we all know that homeschooling moms are far more aware of what they aren’t doing that what they are. I can at least pretend to be a normal, well-adjusted person on my blog. I will let you know in March if we stick with the R&S.
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I so appreciate your willingness to report back in a month or two as to whether or not what you are trying really works. So often we hear others say, “I am using this or that curriculum.” or “I’ve started organizing my home using the (blank) method.” We never hear from many of these folks again. I happen to change things around a lot; you know, always looking for perfection. I’ll let everyone know when I find it.
Comment by Linda (January 3, 2007 @ 11:11 am )
I have just been catching up on all your posts that I missed over the holidays, and lady, you crack me UP! You’ve had some really good stuff.
And this one just amazes me. You have honestly used the same methods with all your children up to now? I have only four children, and they all learn so very differently, sometimes it’s overwhelming! I have one who remembers everything he hears, one who remembers anything she reads, and two who seem to have to get involved up to the elbows before they really “get it.” I guess that’s why I homeschool–so that they can learn in their own way–but it certainly makes it challenging for the mom!
Comment by homefire (January 3, 2007 @ 1:38 pm )
This was such an encourageing post (not that I’m surprised!). Thanks for hanging in there another year!
Comment by Margaret in VA (January 3, 2007 @ 3:23 pm )
I hate to be ignorant but what is the “CM way”? I’m a homeschooling mom but unaware of what CM is.
Thanks
Comment by Kelli (January 3, 2007 @ 4:18 pm )
“cm” means Charlotte Mason. One of the best places on the web for CM info is http://www.amblesideonline.org
Comment by Cindy (January 3, 2007 @ 4:51 pm )
We’ve got a Pooh here at our home, too.
I’ve also switched to more concrete curricula over the years and take a relaxed approach with him. It’s encouraging to see the both of us finally enjoy school. 
Comment by Linda (January 3, 2007 @ 11:02 pm )
I think being able to find out what works best for each child is the key to a successful homeschool experience. I have been making some changes this year - some are working and some are not working as well. I tend to get swallowed up in what others are doing and this year I am really trying to find what works for our family.
Comment by Pam (January 5, 2007 @ 10:56 pm )
Okay, I know this is a really old post, but I am going through some of your archives….thanks so much, Cindy, for being real. It is so good to hear a mom with older kids say taht you go through the same things taht I do. I know that no one really and truly has it all figured out, but sometimes I think that they do. anyway it is good HEARING that oterhs don’t. I love your statement - “in real life we all know that homeschooling moms are far more aware of what they aren’t doing that what they are. I can at least pretend to be a normal, well-adjusted person on my blog”. ha ha. Thanks. Love your blog.
Comment by Karen Dunham (December 22, 2007 @ 6:57 pm )