Tue 17 Jan 2006
And now we come to the end of I’ll Take My Stand, although I am not going to be able to finish up in one post. I’ll Take My Stand is not just a book about agrarianism but a book about Southern agrarianism. For many, maybe most, agrarians, that is not a distinction they are interested in. Since I am a philosophical agrarian, at best, for me the distinction is the main event.
Stark Young starts off the last essay, Not in Memoriam But in Defense with this paragraph:
If anything is clear, it is that we can never go back, and neither this essay nor any intelligent person that I know in the South desires a literal restoration of the old Southern life, even if it were possible, dead days are gone, and if by some chance they should return, we should find them intolerable.
The South was a beautiful representation of how to live but it had a disease. The cure to that disease left it unable to withstand the onslaught of industrialism. Still in the South today you find men burdened down with all that is modern yet still carrying that spark of humanity that is uniquely Southern. I know because I am married to such a man.
And what of all this for the Missouri farmer, the New York banker, the Maine Yankee, or the Oregon homeschool mom? Does it really matter?
Maybe not, but we can all learn from different cultures, especially former representations of Christianity.
SOAPBOX AHEAD:
In the last month I have become increasingly aware that the word homeschooling does not imply reading. Many mothers have looked at my library and sighed over the fact that their children don’t/won’t read. I have met more Christians who haven’t read The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe than those who have. This does not bode well for our present day Christian culture. Do you really think that someone will read a book after watching a movie, if they didn’t read it before? After all you can read the entire book in 2 hours and it doesn’t have a hard word in it.
If people will not read you cannot point them to the past. They don’t know about the former milemarkers along the road. I am not sure people who don’t read can think. Sure they can feel but can they think?
If your children do not read then may I suggest that you are running around too much. If your children don’t read you probably have no business joining that co-op. If your children do not read then stop everything, and give them at least 2 hours a day to read. Please do not tell me your children resisted your attempts to make them readers. Readers are people who read. You are the mom, make them read, give them time to read. A hurried life does not produce a thoughtful person. Stop and read.
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Wow! You print what I think.
Comment by laura (January 17, 2006 @ 11:35 am )
“A hurried life does not produce a thoughtful person. Stop and read.”
Ouch, that hurts. But it’s a good hurt and those are very wise words.
Thank you.
Comment by Janet (January 17, 2006 @ 11:43 am )
Thanks for the soapbox! I wholeheartedly agree; but, it was a great reminder!
Do you usually assign your children’s reading or do you let them select what they want to read? Do you have all your children read for two hours daily?
Cindy, you always give us food for thought! Thanks!
Laura in Alabama
Comment by Laura (January 17, 2006 @ 1:47 pm )
Linked, linked, linked. Mmm, hmmm. Yes, indeedy.
Comment by deputyheadmistress (January 17, 2006 @ 2:27 pm )
Laura, I have a loose goal that my children should be reading at least 2 hours a day. Some of that is assigned reading and some is personal pleasure reading. While some days get bogged down and they don’t read that much, most days they read more and that does not include our morning read alouds because we don’t read aloud every morning.
The older boys have lists of books to choose from so their reading is assigned but they get to choose when to read what. I also have some daily assigned reading, for instance I have assigned chapters from The Thinking Toolbox & The Best Things in Life so that the older boys can read it simultaneously and discuss their reading.
Comment by Cindy (January 17, 2006 @ 4:34 pm )
Inspiring! Any hints for a mommy of very small children? I feel a bit ignorant. Other than everything written by AA Milne and Beatrix Potter, would you mind sharing some titles of good read-aloud books for children 2-4? I want to build a quality library, but I’m not sure where to go. Thanks!
Comment by Brandy (January 17, 2006 @ 4:47 pm )
You can never go wrong with AA Milne or Beatrix Potter
But
How about:
Robert McCloskey
Obadiah books by Brinton Turkle
Maj Lindman books Snipp, Snapp and Snurr etc
Lois Lenski Papa Small etc.
Dr Seuss
Bill Peet
Curious George (the original titles not millions of goofy paperbacks)
Billy and Blaze books
Virginia Lee Burton books
Tasha Tudor
Fairy tales
Margaret Wise Brown
Provensen books (Alice and Martin)
Hader books ( Berta and Elmer)
Edna Miller’s Mousekin books
Lots of nursery rhymes illustrated by different authors: Marguerite De Angeli, Tasha Tudor, Jessie Wilcox Smith, My Bookhouse Volumes if you can find older sets.
Thornton Burgess for easy to understand chapter books for the little guys.
Comment by Cindy (January 17, 2006 @ 5:11 pm )
Could I throw in a suggestion too? When I was a young home schooling mom just starting out, _Honey for a Child’s Heart_ was a great resource. I would have never survived library days without it.
BTW, Cindy I ordered Farmer Giles, and it should be here from Amazon any day! Thank you for the recommendation.
The “not reading” trend has to be fairly new in home schooling. The moms who I knew when I started out tended to be “bookish” themselves and had loved reading and playing school as children. I agree home schoolers now are WAY too busy. Now that is a legitimate alternative, the new breed of home schoolers tend to be more curriculum and/or classroom dependent and less keen on self-education through reading and personal research.
Comment by Sandy (January 17, 2006 @ 7:02 pm )
Also books by Eric Carle, Marjorie Flack, and Richard Scarry. My boys also enjoy the Happy Lion books,Madeline books, and Babar books.
Comment by Jeannine (January 17, 2006 @ 7:06 pm )
Oh, I love the Angus books by Marjorie Flack !!
Comment by Cindy (January 17, 2006 @ 7:10 pm )
Wow…thanks…I think I’ll go scour our local used bookstore now.
Comment by Brandy (January 17, 2006 @ 7:17 pm )
Linked!
Comment by lady laura (January 17, 2006 @ 11:49 pm )
When people ask me what we do for homeschool, I kind of just mutter, “Well, we read a lot.” I am terrible about science experiments, we have never done a field trip, (And my oldest floats somewhere between 7th & 8th grade. I mean, we’ve had chances.)We don’t do sports. But we read. I read aloud, they read alone and they read to each other. Just when we think “There can’t be a book as good as the last” we find another.
There is nothing like little anticipating faces slapping books into you lap, saying “read, mommy.” Or a older kid looking up from their quiet activity, saying “You aren’t going to stop are you?” It’s a wonderful thing.
Comment by kerri (January 18, 2006 @ 1:55 am )
Excellent post. I just talked about what I am reading on my blog. I’m going to link to this as a reminder as to how important it all is.
Comment by Spunky (January 18, 2006 @ 7:09 pm )
“spark of humanity that is uniquely Southern”–I’m married to such a man, too, and I love it! He grew up on a 50 acre farm, raised by his “real Texas cowboy” grandfather. Sadly, the farm was bought by a country music mogul and now has a 3 million dollar mansion on it, surrounded by million dollar home neighborhoods. The difference in him and those who live where he used to–lots, but they think the gardens and cows are “quaint.”
Comment by Mandy (January 18, 2006 @ 8:27 pm )
All I can say is that I’m sad. I devoured every book I could get my hands on as a kid. I got many spankings for reading when I should have been working.
Now my own daughter cannot read and to read to her brings out all the ADD and autistic tendencies that we deal with around here. I call it a good day when I get to read one story to her from a childs golden book.
Comment by mrs darling (January 19, 2006 @ 11:42 am )
Amen! A hurried life does not produce a peaceful home either! People ask me how I get my children to read. How would I keep them from it?
I’m as baffled as they are just in the opposite direction!
Comment by reddingmountain (February 1, 2006 @ 10:24 am )